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So, you’re in a relationship with a great girl and things seem to be going along well.  You really have a good feeling about this woman and think she could be “the one.”  Suddenly, she tells you she needs her space.  No matter how confident you are, hearing these words often feels like a bucket of cold water thrown at you.  You may have shrugged it off and said, “Sure, no problem” or you could have stood there in stunned silence.  Either way, you were probably confused, if not hurt.

Why did she say that?  What does she mean?  What did you do wrong?  Why does she want time away from you?  Is she cheating?  Does she still care about you?  It’s enough to drive you insane!  You committed yourself to her and she takes a giant step back?

What she really means when she says, “I need my space” -

When a girl utters these words to you it could mean that she’s feeling pressured.  Perhaps you’re spending too much time together.  Maybe things got too serious too fast.  It could be that she recently got out of another relationship and she’s confused.  Also, she could simply be stressed out in her own life and is taking it out on you.  Maybe she has problems with her family, school, work or finances and you’re the easiest target.  Or…she may feel smothered.  You could be showering her with far too much attention and affection and not giving her room to breathe.

How to handle things when she grows distant –

Don’t get me wrong, relationships are all about love and commitment, but we all have our own lives.  Nobody should live and breathe for a relationship.  She could need more time with her friends or even time to herself.  Take a look at how much you really are together.  If it’s every day or many hours several times a week, back off a bit and give her some room.

Also, allow her to be who she is and love her for it.  Too many times people will get into relationships and start trying to change the other person.  They make ultimatums, try to control the other person, suggest how things should be done, or just dig in and take over.

For example, I know a guy who lost a great girl because he loved her so much he would go to her house every morning to make her breakfast and clean her house.  She felt smothered and as if he was passing judgment on her lifestyle.  Instead of backing off after she politely (then not so politely) asked him to, he felt she was being unreasonable.  In the end, she left and he had to mend a broken heart.  The moral of the story is, don’t try too hard to impress a lady or take over her life.  She was doing just fine before you arrived—no matter what you may think to the contrary.

She may really love you, but if you’re pushing yourself into her life so much so that she feels she has to give up the things she loves or defend herself against your disapproval then you can bet things will fall apart.

Listen up guys!  If your girlfriend ever tells you she needs some space, it means she needs time for herself, to be herself, and if she can’t get away from the relationship now and then she’ll feel like a prisoner rather than a person.  Instead, respect her wishes and let her do her own thing.  Let her think about things and have a chance to miss you.  Chances are, in a very short time, she’ll be eager to be in your arms again.

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